Welcome! 🙂

Please take a moment to review our HOUSE RULES:

Shared Values

We intentionally co-create this space to reflect our shared values, and to foster connection, mutual support, community, safety, self-expression, creativity, aliveness, joy and pleasure.

We ask that guests demonstrate care, kindness, respect, integrity and personal accountability, to the best of their abilities, at all times. Bullying, discrimination, disruptive drama, and other toxic behavior will not be tolerated.

Consent

The space is cozy and inviting; you’re surrounded by cute, smart, and intriguing folx; there may be opportunities for hugging, cuddling, flirting, touching, kissing, etc.

This is a consent-first space, consent is mandatory. That means everything — physical touch, emotional engagement, shared substances, and use of spaces—requires clear, mutual verbal agreement. When in doubt, ask before doing.

Consent must be:

• Freely given – not pressured, manipulated, or assumed
• Reversible – can be withdrawn at any time, for any reason, without explanation
• Informed – everyone understands what they’re consenting to
• Enthusiastic – mutual desire, not obligation; if it’s not a “hell yes” then it’s a “no”
• Specific – consent to one thing isn’t consent to everything

If consent is violated:

• We believe in restorative justice. We must practice accountability in order to maintain respect and safety.
• We ask that guests be open to feedback, committed to repair and personal growth.
• If you cross a boundary (even unintentionally), be ready to listen, reflect, and make it right.
• If you observe a consent violation - don’t be complicit - speak up & intervene.
• Find a Domie for assistance facilitating conflict resolution.

Respect the Home

• Please remove your shoes at the door.
• LEAVE NO TRACE. Clean up after yourself and leave things tidy, this means washing dishes, disposing of garbage, cleaning up spills, and reporting any damage caused.
• We have 2 cats — please don’t let them outside, and be kind to them.

Contributions Welcome

• Food and drinks will be provided, please bring your own cup.
• Feel free to bring snacks or drinks to share, if desired.
• Want to get more involved to make a bigger impact (ie: plan & prep the next party’s food & drinks, help host a themed night, share art, etc)? Coordinate with us in advance.
• The homeowners are covering the costs of hosting on an ongoing basis (food, drinks, paper products, other consumables, art & atmosphere etc) - a suggested donation of $10 per person, per party would be greatly appreciated to help support hosting future gatherings. Venmo: @mo-problems

Quiet Hours & Leaving

• Quiet hours begin when the party ends, at 1:00am.
• We care about your safety! If you get too fucked up to travel home, please speak with a Domie. We’ll either help coordinate a ride or let you crash here.
• Please ask before you crash here!
• If you do stay overnight, please don’t linger in the morning.

Lock Up

If you’re the last one awake, whether you’re leaving or sleeping here, please ensure that the 2 exterior doors are locked.

Age Requirement

All guests must be 21+. No exceptions.

Inviting Others

You’re responsible for your guests’ behavior. Ensure they know and follow these house rules.

Need Help?

Find a Domie if you have questions, need help or support.